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How to Quit Smoking For Yourself
Thousands of people are addicted to
smoking, and, every day, thousands of people fight the battle of
breaking this addiction. But, how can someone go about successfully
quitting smoking? There are many reasons to quit, but the most important
reason is for your self.
Quitting for Others
Many people trying to quit smoking are doing so in order to make others
happy. They try to quit so their spouse will quit nagging. They try to
stop because their job frowns upon smoking. They try to put out the
cigarette because society has made smoking unacceptable. They try to
quit because their kids look at them with big, puppy dog eyes and plead
with them to stop. While it is great to have family and friends around
you who care and who want to see you stay around awhile longer than you
will if you continue smoking, the only reason that will truly motivate
you is if you quit for yourself.
Sure, pleasing those around you may get you to start on the road toward
recovery from nicotine addiction. You might tell yourself, "I'm doing it
for my kids. I don't want them to see me go through cancer." Or, you
might think, "If I quit smoking, my spouse might finally just leave me
alone about it." While these thoughts may get you initially motivated to
quit smoking, they won't help you sustain a cigarette free life. In
fact, quitting for others might just help you make excuses to start back
up again. For example, you might quit for your spouse, and then when you
have a disagreement about something, you might say, "I'll show him (or
her)." Next thing you know, you're lighting up. You may not think you
would do that, but we do strange things when we're upset - even destroy
our own bodies.
Why You Should Quit for Yourself
There are plenty of reasons you should quit for yourself. A couple of
them even do tie into quitting for others, but with a slightly different
slant. For example, you might quit because of your kids, but not for
them. By this I mean that you might want to quit so you can enjoy
spending more years with them, rather than because you don't want to see
them get hurt by your early death. This may sound selfish, but you have
to think about yourself when you are trying to quit. You have to
convince yourself there are many reasons to quit that will benefit you
personally.
Of course, there is the obvious health benefits involved with quitting.
If you quit, you put years back onto your life. This is because you have
now effectively reduced your chances of developing high blood pressure,
heart disease, throat cancer, lung cancer, and emphysema. You have also
lessened your likelihood of having a heart attack and of developing gum
disease and ulcers, just to name a few.
If you aren't feeling too concerned about the inside of your body,
consider the outside. Smoking makes your finger and teeth yellow, not to
mention the bad smell. Of course, you probably don't realize just how
bad it smells because your sense of taste and smell has both been dulled
by smoking! Fortunately, quitting will help bring back these small joys
of life.
In addition, smoking makes your skin wrinkle faster, particularly on
your face. Not only that, the notion that smoking makes a person look
"cool" has been gone for a long time. In fact, the majority of people
are less attracted to people who smoke than the other way around.
Of course, there are also the financial rewards of quitting smoking.
Most smokers will save literally thousands of dollars every year by
simply quitting smoking. Just imagine all of the things you can do for
you if you quit. Perhaps you have seen some new outfits or shoes you
would like to buy at the end of a year of successfully not smoking.
Maybe you can purchase a new entertainment center, or buy that new
transmission for your project car. Perhaps you can take that vacation
you have always wanted to take. If you managed to win the battle against
this addiction, go ahead and spoil yourself - you deserve it! Consider
it a celebration of saving your own life. |